Women discuss their first orgasm
I get asked about orgasms at least once a week—that's just life as a sex researcher for you. Considering how fleeting the actual experience really is—most times, an orgasm lasts just 10 to 20 seconds—I've always found it interesting how much achieving one matters to people. After all, orgasms are just one way that people judge whether a sexual experience was satisfying. But just because orgasms are fleeting doesn't mean there isn't a lot for researchers like me to dig into. Countless studies have been done on orgasms—like who is having the most of them , the weird things that happen after we have them, and yes, how to increase the odds that you have many, many more, if that's what you're after.
Alexandra Daddario. Age: 28. Liberated athlete nympho to meet a cultured, neat, adequate man, without the love of bargaining, but with a love of adultery)))
The first orgasm: 10 confessions of real people
11 Women Share Their First Orgasm Experience
Skip navigation! This story was originally published on August 1, Orgasm can be an elusive goal for many women. Some research suggests that many as one in three of us has difficulty achieving orgasm during sex.
Victoria Justice. Age: 26. Individual personality in perfect shape! I always meet in beautiful lingerie, elegant and rested, ready for sex games and depravity! Full privacy!
13 women tell all about their first orgasm
The first time you had an orgasm story is probably far better than the first time you had sex story. And TBH, they hardly ever overlap. In fact, it's quite possible your first orgasm wasn't with another person at all, but from masturbation. But however it came about, it was glorious, terrifying, and overall — well — orgasmic. The truth is, nothing really compares to that first time.
All photos by Bruna Arbex. Hattie tells me she has never even tried to touch herself and when she told me this, I was speechless. But for my friend Hattie—who wishes to remain anonymous so as not to uproot the sexual prowess of her previous partners—faking has been the only ever ending to her sexual exploits since she started having sex ten years ago. I think I thought I loved him more than he loved me so it was my way of giving him something. So we give ourselves a week to rid Hattie of all her pent up sexual repression and get her that happy ending that she so deserves.